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The Bowaz Phenomenon: The Hypocrisy of Jamaican Men‏

The first post I did on the “Bowaz Phenomena” attracted a considerable amount of attention and reviews, but as far as the issue is concerned; many people are afraid to declare that they actually enjoy some good head. That led me to thinking about the hypocrisy of our society (as mentioned in the first post) but specifically of our men.

It would appear that most, if not all, Jamaican men enjoy getting his member swallowed by a girl. In fact, a good friend of mine said he isn’t concerned about how good the girl is, he just wants the warmth of her mouth around his dick (a some serious teeth dat enuh…whoa) So if we all want head, why is it that we are scorning and mocking the girls who are brave and freaky enough to orally pleasure us? Gentlemen, that’s not right! Some men, like Kartel, have gone as far as to record or capture the moment and publish it; so that he is given props and respect from friends and the male population at large. The girl is seen and shamed while the guy is lauded for having gotten head and his status among friends is more often than not elevated.

Why are we shaming Milk? Paula? Lisa Hype? Or that girl stupid enough to believe the guy was sending a text? They are doing us a service gentlemen! A wonderful, gloriously warm and fulfilling service! Why would you go around saying “bun a bowas gyal” and “dem gyal deh cyaan chat inna mi face”? Why?! Was the head bad? Too much teeth? You got bitten? I just can’t understand the hypocrisy. You want head, she gives you head, you like the head. Why are you gonna embarrass her by posting it on the internet or sharing it with your friends? Seriously guys, it’s time we move past the hypocrisy and immaturity. Grow up!

And then the guys who eat vagina like it’s freshly steamed fish and then go to dances and parties “bunning out bowaz”. Shut the hell up! Last night you were face deep in some girl’s front! So how you gonna bun out bowaz with your pussy stained tongue? Huh? How come?! HOW COME? If you eat the fruit and you’re not comfy with yourself, it is NOT cool to project your insecurities on someone else. It isn’t cool at all. It makes you a damn hypocrite of the worst kind. Eat. Pray. Love. You’ve ever heard that? I’d like to amend it to… Eat. Shut Up. Eat Again. (LOL)… and then eat some more. It is after all the food of champions. Cooper disagrees, he says rum is. (Damn alcoholic…LOL)

We need to cut out the bullshit and hypocrisy in this country. We need to stop persecuting people for making a choice as to what they find pleasureable and pleasing. It doesn’t affect you! And we already established in the first post that you can’t “grounds” or get “pussy breath”. Let’s be mature about sex and specifically oral sex. There are so many aspects of the “Bowaz Phenomena” left to be discussed. Slowly but surely I hope to look at them all. In the mean time, stop the hypocrisy! Eat. Pray. Love…and then Eat Again. LOL.


23 responses

  1. very nice post

    most ppl engage in oral sex and purely out of social pressure they feel the need to say otherwise. its sad ….. if ur not happy with the act dont do it.

    i have a friend who is more than happy to admit that he enjoys performing oral sex. when the other participants in the convo start to make a fuss abt his choice he just asks what are they going to do? and points out to them that they cant do a thing about it.

    ppl just need to be mature and move on …. if u like it then just say so

    March 28, 2011 at 10:38 pm

    • Thankss 🙂 That’s exactly what I’m saying. IDK what’s the hypocrisy for.

      March 28, 2011 at 11:08 pm

  2. I didn’t even really read this….lol… i just scanned through, it’s like i knew what u were gonna say next each time. Not cause ur predictable just cause i think the same.

    Everyone who knows me know i don’t hide and talk. I Eat it because i love it! Big up to all the people who endorse and practice Oral sex! POW! lol…. follow meh!

    March 28, 2011 at 11:00 pm

    • LOL! U think this is a hook up site Fox? Hahaha! Bout follow you! xD

      March 28, 2011 at 11:14 pm

  3. G

    lol.. that being said you shouldnt go sucking down the place. Cuz it is possible to get infections from oral

    March 28, 2011 at 11:00 pm

  4. Christina

    What an article…. I dnt even knw wat to say. It’s just SAD!

    Then again… If u a bowas or not, nobody really care. It wuda nice if dem just tone dung dis ting and stop disclose dem dirty laundry and corrupt society with dem freakiness. I think pple feel pressured of what dem associates mite think and we all know how Jamaican pple dawk and judgmental. If they r ashamed to admit seh dem a bowas or that dem receive oral sex then they shudnt engage in this activity. Based on I’m seeing, I’m sooooooooo glad dat mi nuh live a Jamaica…. Pple dem sicken me.

    March 28, 2011 at 11:15 pm

    • So you think people who “bow” are corrupting society with freakiness? I wasn’t clear on that part

      March 28, 2011 at 11:20 pm

  5. SuperDivaKerry

    Read the article and its on point that Jamaicans are hypocrites.

    I believe Jamaica is a ‘closest freak’ society, that is “Someone who looks and acts innocent in public, but becomes a huge sexual freak behind closed doors.” Most of us enjoy oral sex being done to us (if it is done properly). If you haven’t gotten it yet, its your fault–yuh body nuh look right and yuh nuh look hygienic…no, no none for you :p

    Oral sex have been going on for decade so grow up and read a book. Man lie to me nuff time bout them nuh suck pu$$y and mi tell them “you have to lick it before you stick” and low and below, them a pro…lol ole liad.

    Anal sex is what really gross me out but from a nuh me involve me nuh care still. Do what you plz from long as a nuh with me.

    Mi love getting a good ‘lick’ so oral sex is a muss for me 😉

    March 28, 2011 at 11:48 pm

    • LOL! Hahaha! “lick it before you stick it” – U’re a smart girl! (Y)

      March 28, 2011 at 11:55 pm

  6. *walks by SuperDivaKerry and pulls her one side* Me and you haffi have a talk enuh 😉

    In other news. People is you suck, suck respansibly. Mek sure you utensils clean and nice and prim and propa and then just …Dig In

    You wont die from it. and on the note of kartel i bet you him a di biggest bowas in the world to date #ImJustSayin

    Good follow up missa Juvz25

    with that being said am out >>>> @GangstaGent



    March 29, 2011 at 12:13 am

    • Lol! Thanks man 🙂 Re: Kartel, I totally agree. I’m just wondering when he’ll decide to publicly say it to cause some controversy. Lol & you and Fox need to stop trying to pick up people on here! This is not a hook up site! 🙂

      March 29, 2011 at 8:04 am

  7. Ah boi.

    For me it works both ways. The same way we hold the boys accountable for the videos the girls need to step up and accept that they are to blame also. U ago a suck of my h*** and me have out my phone fixed on u and u ago believe seh a text mi a sen?!?

    I’m not saying that the ladies are to blame for this phenomena but maybe if they learnt to be discrete when a guy ‘nyam dem out’ then maybe oral sex wouldn’t be such a big issue.


    March 29, 2011 at 8:34 am

    • LMFAOOOO! 🙂 This slayed me!!!!! LOOOOOOOL! Thanks for ur thoughts 🙂

      March 29, 2011 at 8:49 am

  8. Christina

    Am just saying constructedthoughts…. It wuda nice if dem kip it to demself. No one really cares and its just tooo overrated. Idk it just nuh look good to me…

    March 29, 2011 at 2:53 pm

  9. chani

    I love this article so much. A lot of Jamaicans tend to do this and that shit really annoys me.

    April 8, 2011 at 4:15 pm

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  11. KristinaNeil

    LOL..i swear these comments…anywho…ah bwoii…this phenomena, this phenomena…why is it a phenomena…anywho…like my girl up top…i like(love) good licking 🙂 and if you haven’t gotten any yet you should really go try and get some…iKid..but yea males need to stop doing that..if you dnt want anyone to know that he suck some pussy then just keep ur goddamn mouth shut! If ur compadres are “licking out”(no pun intended) sucking just sidung one corna and nod yuh head and smile…its glorified when a man gets his dick sucked yet scandalized if a pussy is sucked? Shouldn’t it be a shared head experience? And why shame the young ladies who were caught in the act? How would you feel if ur ic ws taking while u sucking some pussy? Think before you act…and about the closet freaks thing…nothing is wrong with that..Jamaica doesnt need to know what a person does behind their doors..some people want a man/woman in the streets and a freak in the bedroom

    May 17, 2011 at 12:17 am

    • LOL! “…sidung one corna and nod yuh head and smile” DWL! #WIN. I enjoy your thoughts, I really do. You should subscribe so that you get the posts as soon as I post them. 🙂

      May 17, 2011 at 12:34 am

      • KristinaNeil

        i will..your post induce thinking upon the taboos

        May 17, 2011 at 12:41 am

  12. KristinaNeil


    May 17, 2011 at 12:42 am

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