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The “Bowaz” Phenomenon : To Suck Or Not To Suck?‏

Gentlemen, that warm sensation. The feeling of a warm tongue wrapped around your member. Saliva running down to your balls, (which she may attend to shortly). Your toes curl, eyes roll back. Heaven. Bliss. Ladies, that intrusive tongue. Probing every corner. Going deep. Flicking gently back and forth on your clitoris. You arch your back, forcing his face deeper into your moistness. Heaven. Bliss.

And yet, there is a certain stigma, a certain label attached to any person in our society who is brave enough to admit that yes, I enjoy receiving and giving such intense pleasure. This person becomes known as a “bowaz”. I admit myself baffled as to why anyone would ostricize someone because they opt to inflict, in my humble opinion, the ultimate form of pleasure that is to be had on their lover. After all, isn’t the aim of sex to provide, to the best of your ability, an intensely pleasurable experience for the person you are laying with?

What is so wrong with using your God given gifts, lips, tongue & my more talented ladies will include the throat, to bring your partner to climax?, to what Shakespeare and so many other great poets refer to as “the little death”. I say nothing. There is absolutely nothing wrong with oral sex. If you don’t want to suck, then don’t. But I can’t understand why society thinks it needs to reach into someone’s bedroom and dictate what organ goes where during intercourse, I am well aware how provocative this statement is, and I hasten to add; since it is between a man and a woman. Perhaps my stalwart christian readers can guide me, but I am almost certain the Good Book states, (chapter & verse to be identified), that the bed is un defiled in marriage. Now I’m no theologian but I’m almost certain that means that acts committed upon the marital bed are permissible.

So why not suck?

My friend on Twitter once told me it is to avoid “pussy breath”, I hope he reads this. (Shout out to you Locksley) Needless to say, that comment had me in stitches. (LMAO) – I’m willing to bet that even a “bowaz” brushes his teeth and therefore any remnants of the “pussy” that may have lingered on his breath would have been erased. Ergo one can’t “grounds” (become a bowaz by association). My learned friends in biology would always remind me that the acidic nature of the vagina is such that it is always clean, or at the very least self cleaning.

So why suck?

Well, LOL.

1. I hear semen is good for firm healthy skin. Ladies, get a cheap facial. No salon needed. Click here or here

2. I also hear semen contains protein. No expensive milkshakes. Milk your man. Click here

3. Pleasure. Please your partner. It’s good for your sex life. And chances are, if he/she wants it (and so many of us want it lately) and you don’t give it, they’ll get it elsewhere.

If you really love & trust the person and you’re already having sexual intercourse, why not? Think about it.

I’m not saying you must or you should. I’ve just given my views. Now you can decide to suck or not to suck.

P.S. : This post pre-supposes that no minors are reading. Sex, in any form, is for adults.

Check out my friend’s post on this same topic, Foxalot.

Read Part 2 Here.


20 responses

  1. This would go perfectly with my post on my blog!!! LOL and you speak truth young blood (Y)

    February 15, 2011 at 9:45 pm

    • LOL – You should link yours here and I’ll link mine to yours.

      February 16, 2011 at 4:35 pm

  2. Chris

    Veryy good! And I concur with every word!

    February 15, 2011 at 10:49 pm

  3. Pussy breath?!? That person is obviously not a fan of their bathroom- lamest excuse ever!If u can have pussy breath then that means that after u finish having sex u just get up and go- smelling like sex and condoms.

    February 15, 2011 at 11:16 pm

  4. @DaProngs

    Nice article. People need to stop being ignorant and stop chastising persons for how they give and take pleasure.

    February 16, 2011 at 8:50 am

  5. @DaProngs

    Nice article. Our society is just plain old ignorant. They refuse to think for themselves. Nothing is wrong with the ways in which you and your partner choose to pleasure yourselves.

    February 16, 2011 at 8:55 am

    • i think it’s their business if they wanna suck lol

      February 16, 2011 at 2:39 pm

    • Amen DaProngs Amen! Let sex be free!

      February 16, 2011 at 4:37 pm

  6. but this is a pretty well done post thumbs up

    February 16, 2011 at 2:42 pm

  7. Karen Lloyd

    Well done Ricky!

    Too many of us choose to be held captive by societal norms!

    February 21, 2011 at 5:15 pm

  8. Michael

    Awesome post (Y) and my answer would obviously be ‘to suck’ lol 😀 !

    February 24, 2011 at 10:54 pm

  9. Killa killa

    Wher u guys frm?

    March 10, 2011 at 6:49 am

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  11. Julez

    Well put together. (Y)

    March 28, 2011 at 11:54 pm

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