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The Bowaz Phenomenon: The Hypocrisy of Jamaican Men‏


The first post I did on the “Bowaz Phenomena” attracted a considerable amount of attention and reviews, but as far as the issue is concerned; many people are afraid to declare that they actually enjoy some good head. That led me to thinking about the hypocrisy of our society (as mentioned in the first post) but specifically of our men.

It would appear that most, if not all, Jamaican men enjoy getting his member swallowed by a girl. In fact, a good friend of mine said he isn’t concerned about how good the girl is, he just wants the warmth of her mouth around his dick (a some serious teeth dat enuh…whoa) So if we all want head, why is it that we are scorning and mocking the girls who are brave and freaky enough to orally pleasure us? Gentlemen, that’s not right! Some men, like Kartel, have gone as far as to record or capture the moment and publish it; so that he is given props and respect from friends and the male population at large. The girl is seen and shamed while the guy is lauded for having gotten head and his status among friends is more often than not elevated.

Why are we shaming Milk? Paula? Lisa Hype? Or that girl stupid enough to believe the guy was sending a text? They are doing us a service gentlemen! A wonderful, gloriously warm and fulfilling service! Why would you go around saying “bun a bowas gyal” and “dem gyal deh cyaan chat inna mi face”? Why?! Was the head bad? Too much teeth? You got bitten? I just can’t understand the hypocrisy. You want head, she gives you head, you like the head. Why are you gonna embarrass her by posting it on the internet or sharing it with your friends? Seriously guys, it’s time we move past the hypocrisy and immaturity. Grow up!

And then the guys who eat vagina like it’s freshly steamed fish and then go to dances and parties “bunning out bowaz”. Shut the hell up! Last night you were face deep in some girl’s front! So how you gonna bun out bowaz with your pussy stained tongue? Huh? How come?! HOW COME? If you eat the fruit and you’re not comfy with yourself, it is NOT cool to project your insecurities on someone else. It isn’t cool at all. It makes you a damn hypocrite of the worst kind. Eat. Pray. Love. You’ve ever heard that? I’d like to amend it to… Eat. Shut Up. Eat Again. (LOL)… and then eat some more. It is after all the food of champions. Cooper disagrees, he says rum is. (Damn alcoholic…LOL)

We need to cut out the bullshit and hypocrisy in this country. We need to stop persecuting people for making a choice as to what they find pleasureable and pleasing. It doesn’t affect you! And we already established in the first post that you can’t “grounds” or get “pussy breath”. Let’s be mature about sex and specifically oral sex. There are so many aspects of the “Bowaz Phenomena” left to be discussed. Slowly but surely I hope to look at them all. In the mean time, stop the hypocrisy! Eat. Pray. Love…and then Eat Again. LOL.


The “Bowaz” Phenomenon : To Suck Or Not To Suck?‏


Gentlemen, that warm sensation. The feeling of a warm tongue wrapped around your member. Saliva running down to your balls, (which she may attend to shortly). Your toes curl, eyes roll back. Heaven. Bliss. Ladies, that intrusive tongue. Probing every corner. Going deep. Flicking gently back and forth on your clitoris. You arch your back, forcing his face deeper into your moistness. Heaven. Bliss.

And yet, there is a certain stigma, a certain label attached to any person in our society who is brave enough to admit that yes, I enjoy receiving and giving such intense pleasure. This person becomes known as a “bowaz”. I admit myself baffled as to why anyone would ostricize someone because they opt to inflict, in my humble opinion, the ultimate form of pleasure that is to be had on their lover. After all, isn’t the aim of sex to provide, to the best of your ability, an intensely pleasurable experience for the person you are laying with?

What is so wrong with using your God given gifts, lips, tongue & my more talented ladies will include the throat, to bring your partner to climax?, to what Shakespeare and so many other great poets refer to as “the little death”. I say nothing. There is absolutely nothing wrong with oral sex. If you don’t want to suck, then don’t. But I can’t understand why society thinks it needs to reach into someone’s bedroom and dictate what organ goes where during intercourse, I am well aware how provocative this statement is, and I hasten to add; since it is between a man and a woman. Perhaps my stalwart christian readers can guide me, but I am almost certain the Good Book states, (chapter & verse to be identified), that the bed is un defiled in marriage. Now I’m no theologian but I’m almost certain that means that acts committed upon the marital bed are permissible.

So why not suck?

My friend on Twitter once told me it is to avoid “pussy breath”, I hope he reads this. (Shout out to you Locksley) Needless to say, that comment had me in stitches. (LMAO) – I’m willing to bet that even a “bowaz” brushes his teeth and therefore any remnants of the “pussy” that may have lingered on his breath would have been erased. Ergo one can’t “grounds” (become a bowaz by association). My learned friends in biology would always remind me that the acidic nature of the vagina is such that it is always clean, or at the very least self cleaning.

So why suck?

Well, LOL.

1. I hear semen is good for firm healthy skin. Ladies, get a cheap facial. No salon needed. Click here or here

2. I also hear semen contains protein. No expensive milkshakes. Milk your man. Click here

3. Pleasure. Please your partner. It’s good for your sex life. And chances are, if he/she wants it (and so many of us want it lately) and you don’t give it, they’ll get it elsewhere.

If you really love & trust the person and you’re already having sexual intercourse, why not? Think about it.

I’m not saying you must or you should. I’ve just given my views. Now you can decide to suck or not to suck.

P.S. : This post pre-supposes that no minors are reading. Sex, in any form, is for adults.

Check out my friend’s post on this same topic, Foxalot.

Read Part 2 Here.


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